Today’s Miracle Moment Is About Owning Your Power to Choose…
We have the privilege of working with lots of people all over the world, and what we’ve noticed is that many people are stuck in a pattern of giving away their power to choose.
Do you ever find yourself in that pattern? For example, if someone asks you “What would you like to do?” do you respond with, “I don’t care, it’s completely up to you. You decide where we go and what we do.” When you respond in this way, you are giving away your power to choose.
It may appear that allowing someone else to choose for you is selfless, giving, kind, and generous. Maybe you think (often subconsciously) that people will like or approve of you more, and it’ll be easier to get love. However, this is actually unhealthy as you are giving away your power to choose and putting it into someone else’s hands. And when you let someone else choose for you, if things don’t work out well, you can end up blaming that person. This is often referred to as codependent behavior. That is not living in the Miracle Zone.
Learning how to make choices that are in alignment with our highest good is what helps us live more in the Miracle Zone.
If you’re not confident or comfortable in your ability to make choices that are aligned with your highest good, the best way to get started is to practice making small choices that will have less of an impact on your life. This will allow your subconscious to gain confidence in your ability to make wise choices.
If you avoid making choices, then you’re not exercising your free will. Your free will is what ignites your vital force. Your very ability to be here in a passionate living body is tied to your free will and animating the spiritual fire within.
If you don’t ever vote, if you don’t ever pick or choose or voice your opinion or your preference, then you’re constantly snuffing out this fire in your belly. Your heart may start to weaken, and you may become depressed. You may become confused, lethargic or disoriented, and you may have a difficult time being satisfied with anything that happens. You can feel victimized, as though nothing is going your way, and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s all because you just didn’t take the opportunity that was yours to take.
Instead, think of it as though you’re casting your vote—it’s just a vote. You don’t have to pick for the whole group, but at least cast your vote into the situation so that you’re activating your own personal preference or passion.
We encourage you to take back your power to choose.
This isn’t being selfish. This is about taking care of yourself, and in doing so, you take care of everything around you. This helps create a healthy environment, so the people who are around you love to be with you because you are operating in a healthy way.
Over the next several days, start casting your vote and expressing your opinion more. By doing so, you’re telling the Universe—I’m in. I mean business and I’m here to play in a big way. The Universe has no choice but to respond to you. That’s what it means to live in the Miracle Zone.