Miracle Moment: A 105-Year-Old Woman’s Secret to Happiness…

Today’s Miracle Moment is About a 105-Year-Old Woman’s Secret to Happiness…

Recently, I attended a singing event with about 25 people, where we sang beautiful songs and chants together for about 2 hours. Throughout the event, I noticed a radiant woman in the back row – she had a huge smile on her face, and she was clapping and singing along the whole time. She stood out to me because she looked to be a little older than the rest of the people there. After we were done singing, I went to meet her and found out that her name was Natalie and she was about to have her 105th birthday. 

She was the first 105-year-old I’d ever met, and she was full of energy, cracking jokes, and living in what we call the Miracle Zone!

We sat down to talk to her, and I asked her what her secret is to living to 105 with such zest and a big smile on her face? 

Because it’s one thing to live to 105, but it’s another to be full of life, vitality, happiness and energy at that age. 

Natalie said that her secret is keeping busy and helping people. She loves encouraging others, helping them believe in themselves, and doing that gives her an extra spark. 

What I love about this is that when most of us think about being 105, we’re afraid we’ll need to rely on others.

Instead, Natalie keeps her focus on helping others, and that’s helped her to stay healthy and energized at her age.

I also got to talk with Ann, Natalie’s daughter, who said that one of her mom’s strengths is that she’s a “rascal” who has a lightness and sense of humor about life. And she definitely made me laugh during our short chat. 

Natalie’s experience is backed up by research done by Dan Buettner, who discovered the Blue Zones – the places in the world where people live the longest, healthiest lives. Just the day after meeting Natalie, I had an interview already scheduled with Dan for Your Year of Miracles members. 

Dan said: Having a sense of purpose and helping others can add 8 years to life. And that’s far more powerful than any pill or any supplement you can find.

So there you go – put your focus on how you can help others, and have a sense of humor about life. 

This week, I invite you to look for ways to focus on helping or encouraging others. This doesn’t have to look like spending a whole day doing volunteer work, but it can. Simply have the intention to be an encouraging presence for others, and as you go through your day look for the opportunities to help others or show you care. And, when life feels too serious, practice having a sense of humor.

Leave us a comment about what Natalie’s story inspires in you! We look forward to hearing from you. 

Comments

65 responses to “Miracle Moment: A 105-Year-Old Woman’s Secret to Happiness…”

  1. Gale Bewley Avatar

    I would Love to be able to talk with this woman if possible if that is durable Thanks

    1. Opoku Richard Atuahene Avatar
      Opoku Richard Atuahene

      I’m soo happy to see women like this, 👍. Many thanks

      1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
        Marci & Dr. Sue

        We totally agree! Thank you.

        Lots of love!

        1. Barbara Avatar

          So inspiring to see Nathalie !
          I’m 67 and starting over , because there is still music in me , I love to share ! building a website to encourage others to become the best version of themselves . As a Happy for no reason coach ! Thank you Marci for all what you are sharing ❤️

          1. Rachael Avatar

            Amazing! Happiness is the secret of glowing self love, health, life purpose , abundance prosperity & longevity.✨️

          2. Marci Shimoff Avatar
            Marci Shimoff

            Awww! Barbara, that’s wonderful. I’m so happy to read this. I love that you’re listening to the music inside you and leading your new, miraculous life. More miracles to you.

        2. Assunta Ercolano Avatar
          Assunta Ercolano

          Natalie is an incredible woman with spirit, joy and wisdom! Many thanks Marci for sharing how at 105 years old we can help others on their journey through life.

          1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
            Marci Shimoff

            Hope her story inspires your miraculous journey, Assunta!

      2. Esra Kayhan Avatar
        Esra Kayhan

        It is so inspiring to hear these stories. I would love to age like her.

        1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
          Marci Shimoff

          Hi Esra,
          Don’t we all want to age like Natalie? 😀
          She’s truly inspiring!

      3. Edgardo Logroño Avatar
        Edgardo Logroño

        Great to know, inspiring.thank you

        1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
          Marci Shimoff

          You’re welcome, Edgardo!

    2. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Hi Gale,
      Not sure that Natalie has access to social media, that’s why I shared our conversation here. It was a privilege to interview her for a brief period in time.

      Much love!

    3. Henry Avatar
      Henry

      It’s so inspiring if someone can reach 105yrs,still being active and healthy.

      Henry Moloi

      1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
        Marci Shimoff

        Indeed, Henry! It was inspiring to listen to her advice, and I had to share it with you all.

    4. Mapula Ngwenya Avatar

      She reminds of my grandma who lived up 104 and always kept herself busy with crocheting mats with plastics and had an amazing sense of humour.

      1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
        Marci Shimoff

        Your grandma sounds adorable and seemed to have lived a really happy life, Mapula! So glad you could see her story reflected in Natalie’s. If you have any learnings from her, we would love to know.

  2. Darleen McGuire Avatar
    Darleen McGuire

    I asked a 88yr. Old if I could adopt her. I am 79 yr. Myself. I also asked A 71 yr. Old if she would be my younger sister.
    Together we started a class on
    Ageless Possibility’s .

    1. JOYce Melendez Avatar

      Thank You sooo much❣️👍🏼🙏😁
      That’s really very inspiring for all of us who think that living in the white golden zone means you are done with life!

      I myself am 63 years old and starting to bring my life’s mission to another level in connecting worldwide as many people as I can with their total True Self.
      And help them to live, love and thrive with True Rooted Confidence fulfilling their life’s purpose and their full potential by living their uniqueness and precious value. Transforming old disempowering emotions and limiting beliefs and land in the present. The Key for JOY, confidence and thriving at any age is always Connection with who we truly are and what we truly care about🙏 For anybody who need some help, please reach out. Together We CAN😊My website still is under construction but will be ready soon❣️

      1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
        Marci & Dr. Sue

        That’s an amazing message, Joyce! Thank you for sharing it with us and encouraging others to reach out. Even the small act of contributing our loving presence for someone else makes a huge difference in their lives. Keep going!

        Much love!

      2. COLLEEN A LENNON Avatar
        COLLEEN A LENNON

        Joyce I would love to connect with you and other woman worldwide.

      3. Marilee Avatar

        Hi Joyce!
        I would love to connect with you!
        My email is:marileeseymour@gmail.com

    2. Paddy Navin Avatar
      Paddy Navin

      This is so inspiring and so true. I am in A.A. and our 12 step programme is seeped on helping others. One of our main quotes is
      “Give it away in order to keep it “. That’s obviously what Natalie is doing. Keeping her enthusiasm and zest and happiness for life by freely giving it to others. A truly beautiful lady, in every sense of the word 🙏♥️

      1. Colly Graham Avatar
        Colly Graham

        So true Paddy, I’m active in the AA Fellowship, 49 years sober a day at a time, at 79 years old I more alive now than I was in my twenties, having a Power in my life and helping others to become what they may.

        1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
          Marci & Dr. Sue

          Totally agree, Colly! Thank you for being a part of such a powerful community and encouraging others through your loving presence and sharing your experiences. Such a powerful intention helps others see a new perspective and opens them to new possibilities.

          Much love!

      2. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
        Marci & Dr. Sue

        Right on, Paddy!
        Thank you for sharing the quote with us. It definitely resonates with Natalie’s message of making contributions to other’s lives through a loving presence.

        Lots of love to you!

    3. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Great way to support each other and encouraging each other. Love the concept of ageless possibilities!

      Much love!

    4. Carol Ann Hanley Avatar

      TO: Darlene Mcguire. I would like to hear more about your
      Ageless Possibilities. Sounds intriguing. I too am in the 80zone and share active learning in social engagements with other women in the 75 – 90’s zone. Such a wealth of knowledge, life understanding, wisdom, and purpose to serve until, one day is, no more.
      Darlene, may your heart be filled with JOY, your face radiant with a SMILE and your SOUL touch everyone in your presence.
      Thank you
      Carol Ann

  3. Aletta Cloete Avatar
    Aletta Cloete

    It’s really a miracle

    1. William Clark Avatar

      YES IT’S REALLY A MIRACLE.

      1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
        Marci & Dr. Sue

        Yes! That’s why we love to share these miracle moments with everyone.

        Much love!

        1. Nancy Avatar

          Great comments from
          everyone! It is amazing what the power of sharing and helping can do for everyone. During Covid and cancer treatments, I found by pivoting my fine art mentoring to my kitchen and zoom, I was able to reach people all over the country, many of whom shared it was their only connection to community during that time. What began as me trying to pivot my own studio practice during that stressful time turned into giving joy to more people than I ever imagined! In turn, it helped me take my mind off my health issues at the time, healing through happiness, sharing and art making. I now continue private mentoring through Zoom, something I had never imagined before 2020!

          1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
            Marci & Dr. Sue

            Nancy, that sounds wonderful! The power of helping others and healing together is exceptional. We’re glad you found a community to share what you love with.

          2. William Clark Avatar

            Great comments from everyone it is amazing what the power of sharing and can do for everyone.

          3. Marci Shimoff Avatar
            Marci Shimoff

            That’s so true, William! Even I am amazed by it. When I spoke to Natalie, I knew I had to share it with my YOM family!

    2. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Right! We loved sharing Natalie’s inspiring words of encouraging and helping other.

      Much love!

  4. Judith Frizlen Avatar

    I find that having purpose and meaning makes me want to jump out of bed and do what’s mine to do every day! Spending time with my grandchildren, writing, and sharing wisdom gleaned from experience is how I serve. And I can’t imagine stopping.
    And absolutely, laughing with my girlfriends keeps it all in perspective.

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      That’s such an amazing way to show up for others, especially your grandchildren! Your loving presence and energy is going to encourage them to make valuable contributions too and open up new possibilities.

      Much love!

  5. Andrea Phoenix Avatar
    Andrea Phoenix

    My mom was a great encourager for me and others. I have taken her great quality and now encourage others too.

    1. CM Avatar
      CM

      Working with a group of asylum seekers has given me a true sense of purpose. I know I am making a difference in their lives and they are certainly doing the same for me, filling me with their faith that all will be well. And oh how we can laugh together! They are a blessing.

      1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
        Marci & Dr. Sue

        What a beautiful way to share your love and presence! Love your perspective that they are a blessing in your life because it goes to show how we can all together open up to the possibilities.

        Much love!

    2. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Your mom sounds amazing, Andrea! Love that she has encouraged you to make a positive contribution in other’s lives too. Keep going!

      Much love!

  6. Ruth Avatar
    Ruth

    Such a wonderful story to hear and begin my day with!! Thank you Marci and Team. My
    sentiments exactly.This is what Life is about, our True Nature shining through and sharing with others. This has given me an instantaneous lift after a huge internal change. Here is to shining on no matter what with an abundance of Joy, Happiness, Love and Gratitude. ❤️

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Love your life message, Ruth! We can see all the possibilities when we go through life together, helping each other. Keep shining and sharing, indeed!

      Lots of love to you!

  7. Caral Grushkin Bauer Avatar

    Marci….Beyond adored your connection to Natalie. Wow 105….
    Bless her being and showing up.
    My darling & beautiful Aunt Mildred, who taught me elocution or now drama lessons, faithfully every Tuesday for many years, resulted in ..many recitals on stage. Scary ..yup…got over that! Practiced Speech Pathology for many years. Thanks Auntie!
    She just passed at 104. Great DNA for me..so far.

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Hi Caral,
      It sounds like your aunt Mildred lived a life full of love, faith, intentions and also encouraging others through her work. Thank you for sharing her story with us. It goes to show how living a life with the intention of contributing to other people’s life in even small ways give our lives purpose and the zeal to keep on going. Thank you again for sharing her amazing story with us.

      Lots of love to you!

  8. Devina Avatar
    Devina

    Hi there.
    An amazing woman . Good for her.

    Marci, I’m actually shocked that you’re 65. I thought you were around 55. I can’t see any lines on your face, so who knows, you’ll probably make it to 105 as well.

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      HI Devină, Yes she is amazing and so inspiring! We love the intention of encouraging others to know the possibilities that come from encouraging loving presence!

      Much love !!

  9. Mary Avatar
    Mary

    Amazing!! Beautiful lady.
    Sending you love ❤️

    I find By loving life finding joy in every moment as well as setting my intention to smile and chat and radiate love and positivity to everyone around me I have the most wonderful life. Life is fun enjoy yourself and always be willing to brighten someone’s day. The more you do this the greater you will feel
    xxx

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Thank you, Mary! You shared a beautiful message too. It’s true that just small contributions to other people’s lives can open so many positive opportunities and abundance.

  10. Deborah Avatar

    What a beautiful story and a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing her with us.

    1. Marci & Dr. Sue Avatar
      Marci & Dr. Sue

      Hi, Deborah!
      Glad to know that the story inspired you.

      Lots of love to you!

  11. Dodie Avatar
    Dodie

    That’s my kind of lady. I am 84 and that is exactly what I have been doing for quite a while. Every night before bed, I say. God, if there is any thing I can do to help anyone at any time, just put it in front of me.” My heart and soul are lit up with joy, happiness and love every day when I awake and I meditate in gratefulness for all He has bestowed upon me in this lifetime. Thank you for your wonderful program.

    1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
      Marci Shimoff

      That’s amazing! Thank you for being part of the Your Year of Miracles community, Dodie.

  12. Suzanne Serlin Avatar

    Marci, this was so perfect for me to see today. I’m 87 and actually took The Year of Miracles last year. You look and are amazing – I actually saw you in Phoenix several years ago ( at least 15 maybe even 20) . I always wanted to be like you, but felt I started too late at 45, only now I am a transformational coach and have found my own way of being. My words of acknowledgement fall out of my mouth everytime I see someone with a smile on their face – especially a mother being nice to her child. MaryKay Ash taught me to “see something good in everyone” and people actually are surprized when I tell them my age. Thanks for keeping me in the loop. You are my best inspiration. I love and appreciate you.

    1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
      Marci Shimoff

      Wow! Suzanne, that’s such a wonderful, full-circle moment here. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, and I’m glad you got to experience Your Year of Miracles program. More miracles to you!

  13. Rachael Avatar

    Amazing! Happiness is the secret of glowing self love, health, life purpose , abundance prosperity & longevity.✨️

    1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
      Marci Shimoff

      Beautifully said, Rachael! Happiness is the key that unlocks many aspects of one’s life, and being Happy for No Reason makes that miraculous life possible.

  14. Eda Avatar
    Eda

    Dear Marci,
    The amazing fact is, that it can be done. The eldest person that I had met before Natalie at 105 was Mrs.. Anderson at 103. She sounded very strong over the phone. She healed my middle finger of my right hand. She was warm and wonderful. She healed by prayer, and the finger healed. I missed her a lot when she moved to live with her son in another state.

    Natalie looks vigorous too, and much younger than her advanced years. Humor is a great help to live a happy life. Thank you for sharing. with loving thoughts, Eda

    1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
      Marci Shimoff

      Wow, Eda! Mrs. Anderson sounds like a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It’s true when you say that it can be done. That’s the happiness message that I wanted to convey too. More miracles to you!

  15. Nina Kamwene Avatar

    Thank you Marci for sharing Natalie’s long life of contribution. I believe each and every one of us came here with a gift to share with the world. As Mary Morrissey teaches: “What would you like to Be, Do & Have” that makes you wake up every morning grateful to be above the ground and breathing? Mine is Life Legacy Coaching & author of “Simply A Journey” on Amazon. Let’s make every day count in gratitude, caring and sharing.

    1. Marci Shimoff Avatar
      Marci Shimoff

      That’s beautiful, Nina! Thanks for sharing with us the teachings of Mary Morrissey which beautifully shows us the importance of aligned actions to make every day count. Much love!

  16. drover sointeru Avatar

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